An Effort To Understand: Hearing One Another (and Ourselves) in a Nation Cracked in Half
Intro -- Title Page -- Copyright -- Dedication -- Contents -- Introduction: What Is "An Effort to Understand"? -- I. Life, Communicated -- Communication Is Everything You Do and Everything You Never Do -- Communicating Is Hard Because Being a Person Is Hard -- Ask for What You Want -- Communication Can Bring Us Together, Even in Mutual Appreciation of How Far We Are Apart -- In Communication, Your Enemies Are Your Friends -- When I Get Tired of Listening to the Living, I Talk to the Dead -- If You Know How It's Going to Turn Out, It's Not Communication -- In Communication, the Style Is Part of the Substance -- "Civility" Is Not Communication -- II. Talking Heads: An Empty Limousine Pulled Up, and America's Leaders Got Out (and Read Prepared Remarks) -- Talking with the Poor, and Communicating with the Rich -- Authenticity as the New Eloquence -- Communication Is Action! -- The Unbearable Weight of Gravitas -- If I've Told You a Thousand Times, I've Told You Once -- Your People Aren't Any More Cowardly and Selfish Than You Are -- Once Upon a Time … A Story about Rhetorical Pink Slime -- Real Leadership -- III. What Our Leaders Need from Us (Hint: They Need Us to Grow Up) -- Follow the Leader? -- Speaking Truth to Power: Talking to Myself -- An Open Letter to the "Man in the Arena" -- Our Leaders Have Plenty to Be Vague About -- We Deserve Leaders Who Act Like They Like Us -- "Because They Know, They Understand" -- Civics Is as Civics Does -- IV. We, Citizen: American Patriots Don't Call Their Fellow Americans Nasty Names -- Other Life, Not So Far Away -- We'd Get Along Better if We Listened Better-to Ourselves -- Do You "Vote Your Interests"? -- Hey, Washington: This Can Go All the Way Bad -- Republicans Have Feelings, Too -- Universities Are Not Safe Spaces -- What's Really "Deplorable"? Taking Communication Out of Context.