Gayfriendly: Acceptance and Control of Homosexuality in New York and Paris
Cover -- Half-title page -- Title page -- Copyright -- Contents -- Acknowledgements -- Introduction -- Why Park Slope and the Marais? -- 1 Becoming Gayfriendly -- Reticence, recognition, indifference: three different generations -- 'It simply didn't exist' -- 'It would be uncool to be un-gayfriendly' -- 'A non-issue' -- The learning processes -- Atypical heterosexuals -- The ordeal of coming out -- 2 Gay Respectabilities -- The right to love each other American style and sexual freedom in France -- The power of the law -- Sexual liberalism -- Gay marriage, heterosexual relief -- Republican universalism and the difference between the sexes -- Good neighbours, good husbands and wives, good parents -- Appropriating an area in the name of diversity -- Progressive synagogues and churches in Park Slope -- A cause for gentrifiers -- From lesbian enclave to gayfriendly district -- Family integration, class integration -- Gayfriendliness within the family -- You shall be gayfriendly, my child -- Integration and surveillance of same-sex families -- You will (perhaps) be gay, my child -- The guide for gayfriendly parents -- From tomboy to invisible lesbian -- 3 Heterosexual Women as Allies -- Feminine compassion -- The division of moral labour -- Male unease -- The 'cruisers' of the Parisian night scene -- The 'fag hag' and her 'gay best friend' -- Disillusions, safe haven and substitute -- The prism of femininity -- Gayfriendliness and lesbophobia -- Women rebelling against marriage -- (Re)building your life when living alone -- Sexual experiments -- 4 The Frontiers of Gayfriendliness -- A race and class norm -- Homophobia as a sign of bad taste -- Talking about space, not race -- The American South as a deterrent -- Visibilities and invisibilities -- Keeping the streets clean -- The rejection of communitarianism and enforced discretion.