Couple Sexuality After 60: Intimate, Pleasurable, and Satisfying
Intro -- Endorsement -- Half Title -- Title Page -- Copyright Page -- Table of Contents -- 1 Confronting Myths About Sexuality and Aging -- Who We Are and the Format of this Book -- Summary -- 2 Embracing the New Normal: Variable, Flexible Couple Sexuality -- The Challenges and Benefits of the New Normal -- The Role of Afterplay in the New Normal -- Is Variable, Flexible Couple Sexuality Better than Autonomous, Predictable Sex? -- Summary -- 3 Sexuality Is More than Intercourse: Challenge, Not Loss -- Affirming Pleasure-Oriented Touching -- Female Sexual Pain with Intercourse -- Valuing Sexuality Without Intercourse -- Summary -- 4 Good Enough Sex (GES): Roles, Meanings, and Outcomes -- GES and Aging -- Gendered Challenges in Implementing GES -- GES in Context -- Summary -- 5 Female-Male Sexual Equity: Being Intimate and Erotic Friends -- Female-Male Sexual Equity -- Relational Equity and Sexual Equity -- Female-Male Sexual Equity -- Do Not Take Sexual Equity for Granted -- Summary -- 6 Desire Is the Key: Reinforcing Sexual Anticipation -- Positive, Realistic Sexual Expectations -- Responsive Sexual Desire for Women and Men -- Maintaining Desire When Intercourse and Orgasm are Lessened -- Summary -- 7 Satisfaction: More than Orgasm -- Individual, Relational, and Sexual Dimensions of Satisfaction -- The Paradox of Sexual Satisfaction -- Dealing with Dissatisfying or Dysfunctional Encounters -- Pride in Beating the Odds and Affirming Couple Sexuality -- Summary -- 8 Naked at Our Age: The Challenge of Integrated Eroticism -- The Core of Eroticism for Couples Over 60 -- The Three Styles of Arousal/Eroticism -- Erotic Challenges for Women -- Erotic Challenges for Men -- Summary -- 9 Couple Sexuality: Valuing Synchronous and Asynchronous Sexuality -- The Joys of Synchronous Sex -- The Joys of Asynchronous Sexuality.